Testimonial: Pixies GuestHouse
We stayed in Pixies GuestHouse the other week when we were visiting AtlantisEVOLUTION for the fetish night. The only clientèle are those that attend AtlantisEVOLUTION to ensure that every person staying is like minded and create a comfortable atmosphere for all involved. The guesthouse is still in the process of being maintained daily, so when we went there were some things missing that will be added soon.
Rating: ★★★★☆ 4/5
THE LOCATION
Pixies is located in a cosy private Cul de Sac of Burslem in Stoke-on-Trent, just a few minutes away from the AtlantisEVOLUTION club. From the front, it looks like just a normal house as the hosts are very discreet and want to keep things comfortable for their guests. They even live right next door for everyone’s convenience.
It is important to note that the guesthouse only opened on the 1st June 2012 so a lot of things are still being worked on. The lovely hosts are very open to all sorts of feedback and suggestions that you might have during your stay.
Essay: Why I Enjoy Being Restrained
Essay number 2. I was Ordered to do this essay because both Daddy and I have taken a real shine to bondage recently, particularly shibari (hover for brief definition). We have spent a lot of time trying new ties and bondage has consistently put me in subspace so this essay was bound to come up sooner or later.
Why I Enjoy Being Restrained:
There are many reasons I enjoy being restrained; some emotional, some physical and some psychological. It is not a simple topic to explain since it affects me in so many different ways. Some things depend upon who has done the tie, whereas some depend on my mindset at the time. It is a complex subject but that is why it is all the more interesting to discuss.
Sinful Songs: Time Warp
I have a lot of history with this song. When I was in primary school it was one of the songs we danced to at our leaving ceremony for our parents and I had no idea where it had come from or what it was about. I just thought it was one of those silly disco songs that everyone seems to like. Now I know better, and after finally getting around to watching The Rocky Horror Picture Show the other week, it struck me that this song has lyrics that remind me of D/s and subspace.
Because of that, I decided it would be great to do a blog post on. So here I present to you my new blog section: Sinful Songs.
Sex Toy Society – Edition 13
Welcome to Edition 13 of the Sex Toy Society round-up of all the sex toy reviews written by Society authors over the past week.
Do you want to be included in next weeks edition? All you need to do is visit this page and submit your latest reviews and photographs before 11:59pm BST on Thursday 30th August 2012. Our authors of the week are selected by the number of reviews published, comments posted and photographs added to the Society so get adding!
You can also find us on Twitter for all the latest news on the society.
Authors of the week
Vibrators
- Body & Soul Desire by Kinky World
- Body and Soul Duplicity by Happy Buzz Reviews
- Body & Soul Elation by Midnight Boudoir
- Body & Soul Remote 1 by Sunny Megatron
- Eve Body Responsive Rabbit by Midnight Boudoir
- Eve The Little Gem by Sassys Sex Toy Reviews
- Jopen Vanity VR6 by Beck Kinks
- Lelo Smart Wand Medium by Bean Fiddler
- Lovehoney Micro Magic Wand by KissinBlueKaren
- Lovehoney Sqweel 2 by Being Blacksilk
- Rocks Off 140mm Ammo by Midnight Boudoir
- We-Vibe Tango by Girly Juice
Dildos
- Bad Dragon Tentacle by Ruffled Sheets
- Doc Johnson The Original by Incendiaire’s Reviews
- Tantus Raptor Dildo by llellsee Sex Toy Reviews
- Vibe Therapy Double Ended Silicone Dildo by Boobaloo’s Reviews
Male Sex Toys
- Tenga Deep Throat Onacup by Kinky Testers
Bondage
- Aslan Leather Jaguar Cuffs by Beck Kinks
- Kinklab Neon Wand by Pixelated Toys
Other
- Adrien Lastic Beginner Silicone Butt Plug by llellsee Sex Toy Reviews
- Ann Summers Juicy Lube by SubReiSkyeM
- Clone A Willy by Hellkat
- Dorcel Geisha Plug by Kira’s Kink
- Fun Factory Boosty by True Pleasures
- Give Lube Silicone by SubReiSkyeM
- Luna Mini Pleasure Bead System by Kinky World
- O Wow Clitoral Arousal Gel by Boobaloo’s Reviews
- Spartacus Four Foot Leather Leash by Kira’s Kink
- Spunk Lube by Hellkat
Thoughts: Regarding Limits in BDSM
The longer I study BDSM and get more into the scene, the more hard limits I find I have. This isn’t due to my resolve and open-mindedness becoming limited but due to the overwhelming amount of knowledge I am gaining in the field.
A lot of places, books and people will tell you that the best sub has few or no limits at all. I don’t think this is the case. The fewer limits I had, the more naïve I was and the more at risk I was of putting both myself and others in danger. I felt like I had a firm idea of what I wouldn’t do but looking back I now know better. In my opinion, the best sub is an educated one. Not necessarily an experienced one but one who has a good grasp on the range of things out there and who is willing to say they have limits. Age, gender, orientation and race have nothing to do with this.
Quote: Nietzsche #3
You look up when you wish to be exalted. And I look down because I am exalted.
― Friedrich Nietzsche
I think Nietzsche might be the man I will quote the most when it comes to BDSM. Whether he means it or not, a lot of the things he said can apply to a BDSM relationship.
Take this one for example: there is an implication that the person he is talking to is looking up at him while he looks down upon them. This position is often used by Daddy and I at events and in his home. I spend a lot of time on my knees staring up at him and just by doing so I feel very fulfilled. I’ve heard that a lot of other Doms and subs do this too, so Nietzsche in my mind will always be a kinkster.