Quote: Nietzsche #4
“What is the seal of liberation? – No longer being ashamed in front of oneself.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche
One of the main things about kink and BDSM is surrendering to your desires. In order to do that, you must be able to face them head-on and accept them as part of who you are. There were a lot of kinks I had that I felt so miserable for having because they were too weird but now it’s different. If I like something, I say so and I don’t back down. Sure, some people would be horrified by what turns me on but I’m at the stage in my life now where I’ve realised their opinions don’t matter. Unless I’m asking them to take part, it’s none of their business what I’m into.
Being upset by who I am has never done me any good. By being so open and uncaring I feel more free than I have in a long time and it is simply glorious. Learning to let go of the small things is more liberating than I ever thought possible and I don’t think I would ever have been able to do it without my Daddy’s help. His guidance and affection for me has allowed me to become closer to who I truly am and I could not explain to you how grateful I am for it. I have helped him awaken to desires he didn’t know he had either, which feels amazing. Despite the fact that this blog is about my growth, I feel that both he and I have grown together and the idea warms every part of me.
He even told me that he can’t picture going back to a vanilla relationship ever again. The best part is that I can’t either.